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Holiday table setting

Stress Free Tips To Survive Holiday Entertaining

Written by: Sandra Mccullough

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Time to read 18 min

Let's face it, the holidays are a stressful time whether we want it to be or not. With the holiday season in full swing, we're diving into one of the most requested topics—stress-free holiday entertaining! 


Today, we’ll be sharing simple yet elegant tips to help you host beautifully while keeping things relaxed and enjoyable. 


From effortless decor ideas to make-ahead recipes and ways to create a cozy, inviting atmosphere, we’ve got you covered. So grab your favorite festive drink, settle in, and let’s make this holiday season a little more magical—and a lot less stressful!

đź’ˇ Did you know

The holiday season is known to bring added stress. Common stressors include financial concerns like affording gifts and meals, as well as the pressure to find and secure the perfect presents. Some of the biggest stressors people worry about preparing holiday meals, hosting and entertaining, logistics and being over committed which is often intensified by busy schedules and high expectations.

TIP 1. Embrace Simpe yet Elegant Holiday Decor

  • Wreaths are a simple yet beautiful and can be artifical or real A wreath can elevate any front door, bringing a touch of festive charm that suits every style and season. Whether you opt for a traditional evergreen wreath adorned with pine cones and berries, a modern minimalist design with eucalyptus and dried flowers, or a seasonal favorite with warm autumnal hues, a well-chosen wreath instantly enhances curb appeal. For year-round versatility, consider a neutral or natural wreath that complements your home’s exterior and can be refreshed with seasonal accents.
  • Tress with lighting whether real or artifical dress up a front door area beautifully.Trees with white lights add an elegant, timeless look to outdoor and indoor spaces, creating a warm and magical ambiance. Whether draped on small potted trees or larger evergreens, white lights bring a touch of simplicity and sophistication. 
  • Lanterns and candles Group lanterns of varying heights on your front porch, patio, or entryway to enhance curb appeal, or place them along a walkway to guide guests with a welcoming glow. 
Elegant  & Simple Outdoor Holiday Decorating
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TIP 2. Holiday Cheers at Home: The Ultimate Bar Setup

The best holiday bar
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Creating a dedicated self-serve bar at home is a fabulous way to make entertaining easier and more enjoyable. With a thoughtfully arranged selection of alcoholic drinks, your guests can help themselves to their favorite cocktails, wine, or spirits, giving you more time to relax and enjoy the gathering. To set up an ideal self-serve bar, organize various drink options, like spirits, mixers, garnishes, and glassware, all within easy reach. Create a designated spot in your home where guests can easily serve themselves, staying close to the action while keeping main prep areas clear. This will keep everyone happy and enjoying their time as you continue through the night celebrating.


Consider including a mix of crowd-pleasers like vodka, gin, whiskey, and tequila, along with some seasonal or specialty options to keep things interesting. A well-stocked self-serve bar not only adds a fun, interactive element to the evening but also allows guests to customize their drinks, creating a relaxed, inviting atmosphere for everyone.

 Must Haves for a DryBar

  • Mocktails: These are non-alcoholic cocktails that can mimic traditional drinks. Some popular options include:
    • Virgin Mojito : A refreshing mix of lime, mint, and soda water.
    • Cucumber Cooler : Muddled cucumber, lime, and sparkling water.
    • Shirley Temple : A nostalgic mix of ginger ale, grenadine, and a maraschino cherry.
  • Non-Alcoholic Wines : Many wineries now produce non-alcoholic wines that taste just like the real thing but without the buzz. Brands like Fre and Torres offer alcohol-free versions of red, white, and sparkling wines
  • Non-alcoholic beers have grown in popularity, providing those who prefer to avoid alcohol with a satisfying alternative that still mimics the experience of drinking beer. Some we like are: Clausthaler Dry-Hopped Non-Alcoholic, Heineken 0.0, Athletic Brewing Co. Upside Dawn Golden Ale, Brooklyn Brewery
  • Craft Sodas : Opt for artisan sodas made with natural ingredients, such as ginger beer, craft cola, or flavored sodas like hibiscus or lavender lemon.
  • Infused Waters: Offering water infused with fruits, herbs, or even cucumber can add an elegant touch to your dry bar. Some popular combinations include lemon and mint, or strawberry and basil.
  • Other Fun Options: Combining iced tea and soda creates a fun hybrid drink known as an "Arnold Palmer" when mixed in a 50/50 ratio, offering the best of both worlds with a refreshing balance of sweet tea and the effervescence of soda. Put out a variety of sweet, green or herbal teas.
  • Sodas: like the classic Cole or Pepsi products have those out as well. Include some Perrier and Sparkling water options along with a pitcher of filtered water.
  • Espresso Martinis are all the rage and you can make a great one non-alcoholic, stock some cold brew coffee or espresso, simple syrup or vanilla syrup, non-alcoholic coffee liqueur  – brands like Lyre's Coffee Originale or Ritual Zero Proof

Alcohol Bar Must Haves

  • Vodka: Look for trusted names like Tito's Beluga, Grey Goose, and Chopin, which often score high in taste tests and have a solid reputation for premium quality
  • Gin: Brands like Hendrick’s and Bombay Sapphire are popular choices among those who appreciate premium gin
  • Tequila: Popular premium tequila options like Don Julio 1942 or Clase Azul Reposado are often highly rated for their superior craftsmanship and smooth, complex flavor profiles
  • Bourbon: Ones we love: Wild Turkey, Evan Williams, Buffalo Trace, Old Forester and some premium ones like Pappy Van Winkle or Blanton’s would be crowd pleazers
  • Champagne: Taittinger, Perrier-JouĂ«, MoĂ«t & Chandon , Veuve Clicquot , Krug and if you're going all out well there's always the Dom PĂ©rignon
  • Sparkling Wine: Some great, affordable sparkling wine options to consider include La Marca Prosecco , Segura Viudas Cava , or Ruinart Champagne (for a bit of luxury without the steep price tag).
  • Red Wine: For a classic, versatile red wine, consider Merlot or Pinot Noir for their broad appeal and food compatibility. For those seeking something bolder and more complex, Malbec, Cabernet Sauvignon or Syrah offer deeper flavors. Robert Mondavi, Stags Leap, Beringer, Josh, are great wines! If you want something a little more special Caymus and J are great red wines!
  • White Wine: Chardonnay & Sauvignon Blanc are great for appetizers and leading into dinner. Some whites we love that are crisp and compliment any party are: Cakebread, Duckhorn, Kim Crawford Sauvignon Blanc, Kendall Jackson, Robert Mondavi.
  • Beer: Stocking the fridge with some classics like coors, budweiser and corona's are always great to have on hand and its an affordable beer option. We love IPA's and craft beers anything from a pale ale to a lager. Some favorites are Tower Station, Four Peaks and Modern times.

Creating a well-stocked bar with stylish garnishes, mix-ins, and glassware is an excellent way to enhance your home entertaining experience. Here are some ideas to make your bar area more festive and functional for the holidays.


Bar Mix-Ins & Garnishes 

  1. Herbs : Fresh rosemary, thyme, and mint are perfect for adding aroma and flavor to cocktails. Use them to garnish drinks like a gin and tonic or mojito.
  2. Citrus : Slices or twists of lemon, lime, and orange can brighten up any drink. Add zest or garnish cocktails like margaritas and martinis with citrus wedges.
  3. Spices : Cinnamon sticks, cocoa beans, cloves, and nutmeg are ideal for holiday drinks like mulled wine or spiked cider. Consider offering a shaker of ground cinnamon or a fresh sprig of rosemary for whiskey sours or old-fashioneds.
  4. Berries : Cranberries, raspberries, and blackberries add color and texture to any drink. Frozen berries can also be used as ice cubes, keeping drinks cool without watering them down.
  5. Olives & Cherries : For classic cocktails like martinis or Manhattans, provide both green olives and maraschino cherries for guests to choose from.
  6. Edible Flowers : For a more elegant touch, consider garnishing drinks with edible flowers like pansies, orchids, or hibiscus. These can elevate the look of cocktails served at a more formal gathering.
  7. Flavored Syrups : Simple syrups in flavors like lavender, ginger, vanilla, or maple can add a unique twist to cocktails.

Glassware :

  1. Stemware : Crystal or high-quality glass wine glasses, champagne flutes, and coupe glasses add elegance. Consider using different shapes for different drinks (e.g., coupe glasses for classic cocktails, wine glasses for holiday sangria).
  2. Rocks Glasses : Ideal for whiskey, scotch, or cocktails on the rocks. A heavy, quality rocks glass will add sophistication to your drink presentation.
  3. Highball Glasses : Great for taller drinks like gin and tonics or mojitos, these glasses allow room for ice and garnishes.
  4. Mugs or Mason Jars : For festive hot beverages like spiked cider or hot chocolate, use mugs or mason jars for a rustic or cozy feel.
  5. Decanter : For serving wine or whiskey, a decanter adds refinement. If serving multiple guests, consider a large glass pitcher or jug for cocktails like sangria.

Holiday Napkins :

  1. Festive Prints : Choose napkins with holiday-themed patterns such as snowflakes, reindeer, or Christmas trees. Consider adding metallic accents like gold or silver for an extra touch of glamour.
  2. Monogrammed Napkins : Personalize your napkins with guest initials or a holiday greeting for a thoughtful touch.
  3. Linen Napkins : Soft, rich fabrics like linen create a luxurious and festive feel. Perfect for an elegant holiday gathering.
  4. Plaid or Tartan : A classic pattern for the holiday season, plaid napkins give a cozy and traditional vibe that works well with rustic or farmhouse-style décor.
  5. Disposable Holiday Napkins : If you're looking for something easy to clean, go for disposable holiday-themed napkins. They come in many festive designs and are both practical and stylish for larger gatherings.

Extra Tips :

  • Keep cocktail recipes visible for guests to easily make their own drinks, or offer pre-mixed beverages for added convenience.
  • Consider a self-serve bar with various drink stations (e.g., whiskey station, champagne bar, or mocktail section) so guests can create their own custom cocktails.

By thoughtfully selecting these items, you can create a stylish, functional, and festive bar setup that enhances your holiday gatherings and allows your guests to feel at ease while enjoying delicious drinks.

Tip 3 Entertian Smarter Not Harder

Setting up a designated snack area with a well-stocked cheese plate, charcuterie board, veggie tray, and finger foods can make holiday entertaining so much smoother. Not only does this allow guests to mingle, explore the spread, and satisfy their appetite before the main course, but it also creates an eye-catching centerpiece for the room. 
With a selection of cheeses, meats, fresh veggies, and small bites, guests can help themselves, leaving you, the host, more time to focus on the finishing touches for the main meal. 
Arrange the area on a spacious table or countertop, using tiered trays, wooden boards, or slate platters to add height and visual interest.

Consider adding small labels for each cheese or dip, so guests can enjoy discovering flavors at their own pace.
This self-serve station is a lifesaver when it comes to managing pre-dinner hunger while keeping things relaxed and interactive. By offering a variety of options, from creamy cheeses to fresh, crisp vegetables, you cater to different tastes and dietary needs, allowing everyone to feel accommodated. Plus, a thoughtfully arranged grazing table or tray makes guests feel welcome and entertained without you needing to attend to every detail. 
A beautiful display of charcuterie and snacks can create a great conversation starter, leaving everyone feeling engaged, comfortable, and ready for the main event!

WE LOVE A WELL ROUNDED CHARCUTERIE BOARD! 


It will look amazing and keep guests happy and fed at their own pace! It's all about variety, textures, and flavors.

 Here are some essentials to make your board a hit:


1. Cheeses

  • Soft Cheese : Brie or Camembert, for a creamy option that pairs well with fruits and honey.
  • Semi-Soft Cheese : Gouda or Havarti, offering a smooth texture and mild flavor.
  • Aged Cheese : Sharp cheddar or Parmigiano-Reggiano, for a bolder, savory kick.
  • Blue Cheese : Gorgonzola or Stilton, to add a tangy, pungent flavor that complements sweeter elements on the board.

2. Meats

  • Cured Meats : Salami, prosciutto, and chorizo are popular choices that add rich, savory flavors.
  • PatĂ© or Rillettes : These spreadable meats offer a different texture and can be served in small ramekins with a spreader knife.

3. Accompaniments

  • Fruits : Grapes, apple slices, or figs provide a sweet contrast to the salty meats and cheeses.
  • Nuts : Almonds, walnuts, or pistachios add a satisfying crunch and earthy flavor.
  • Olives and Pickles : Marinated olives, cornichons, or pickled veggies add a bit of acidity, balancing richer flavors.

4. Spreads and Dips

  • Honey, Fig or Fruit Preserves : Pair well with cheeses, especially blue cheese or Brie.
  • Mustard : Dijon or whole-grain mustard brings a tangy flavor that complements meats and aged cheeses.

5. Crackers and Bread

  • Offer a variety of crackers, and sliced baguette to give guests options for assembling their perfect bite.

6. Decorative Accents

  • Fresh edible flowers like lavender, hibiscus, pansies, roses, marigold, violet,calendula. Grapes, fresh fruit, parsley, fresh basil, thyme are also great!

With these essentials, your charcuterie board will offer a delicious array of flavors and textures that are sure to keep guests happy and engaged.

Gourmet Cheese Plates are always a Win!

For an impressive cheese plate that’s perfect for hosting, start by selecting a variety of cheeses that offer different textures and flavors. Include a mix of soft cheeses (like brie or camembert), semi-soft options (such as gouda or havarti), hard cheeses (like aged cheddar or manchego), and a bold, pungent cheese (such as blue cheese or gorgonzola). This range will provide something for every palate.


Next, add complementary items that enhance the cheeses' flavors, like cured meats, fresh or dried fruits (grapes, figs, or apricots), and nuts (almonds or walnuts). Incorporate a variety of crackers or sliced baguette, and add small dishes of olives, honey, or fruit preserves for an extra touch. 


Arrange everything on a wooden board or tray with plenty of space between items for an inviting, visually pleasing presentation. This setup makes it easy for guests to sample, mix, and discover their favorite combinations.

Consider adding small labels for each cheese or dip, so guests can enjoy discovering flavors at their own pace.


This self-serve station is a lifesaver when it comes to managing pre-dinner hunger while keeping things relaxed and interactive. 


By offering a variety of options, from creamy cheeses to fresh, crisp vegetables, you cater to different tastes and dietary needs, allowing everyone to feel accommodated. Plus, a thoughtfully arranged grazing table or tray makes guests feel welcome and entertained without you needing to attend to every detail. 
A beautiful display of charcuterie and snacks can create a great conversation starter, leaving everyone feeling engaged, comfortable, and ready for the main event!

Amazing Cheese Platter
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For a truly elaborate cheese board, aim for a mix of flavors, textures, and colors that make it not only delicious but also visually stunning. Here’s a breakdown of cheese, condiments, and fruit to create the perfect spread, with crusty bread and gourmet crackers as essential accompaniments.


Cheese Selections

  1. Soft Cheese :

    • Brie or Camembert – creamy and mild, perfect for spreading on bread.
    • Goat Cheese – tangy and smooth, ideal for spreading or pairing with fruit.
  2. Semi-Soft Cheese :

    • Gouda – rich, nutty, and slightly sweet.
    • Fontina – buttery and mild, perfect for those who prefer a subtler taste.
  3. Firm Cheese :

    • Aged Cheddar – sharp and crumbly, a classic choice.
    • ComtĂ© or Gruyère – nutty and complex, excellent for pairing with meats and fruits.
  4. Blue Cheese :

    • Gorgonzola or Roquefort – bold and tangy, perfect for adding depth to your board.

Condiments and Spreads

  • Honey – adds a touch of sweetness and pairs wonderfully with blue and goat cheeses.
  • Fruit Preserves – fig or apricot preserves provide sweetness that complements both soft and firm cheeses.
  • Olives – green and black varieties add a briny contrast.
  • Mustard or Chutney – for a savory, slightly tangy element, especially good with aged cheeses.

Fresh Fruits and Nuts

  • Fresh Fruits:
    • Grapes – classic and easy for guests to grab.
    • Figs – fresh or dried for a hint of sweetness.
    • Apples and Pears – sliced thin for easy pairing with any cheese.
  • Nuts:
    • Almonds or walnuts – add a crunchy texture that pairs well with creamy cheeses.

Bread and Crackers

  • Crusty Baguette Slices – ideal for spreading soft cheeses or eating with harder ones.
  • Gourmet Crackers – choose a variety of plain and seeded crackers to add a light, crispy element that doesn’t overwhelm the cheese flavors.

This combination of cheeses, condiments, fruits, and breads creates a balanced, enticing cheese board perfect for a party or gathering.

Consider adding small labels for each cheese or dip, so guests can enjoy discovering flavors at their own pace.


This self-serve station is a lifesaver when it comes to managing pre-dinner hunger while keeping things relaxed and interactive. By offering a variety of options, from creamy cheeses to fresh, crisp vegetables, you cater to different tastes and dietary needs, allowing everyone to feel accommodated. 


A thoughtfully arranged grazing table or tray makes guests feel welcome and entertained without you needing to attend to every detail. 
A beautiful display of charcuterie and snacks can create a great conversation starter, leaving everyone feeling engaged, comfortable, and ready for the main event!

Tip 4 Pre-Plan & Batch Recipes

Pre-planning and batching recipes can make hosting stress-free and efficient, allowing you to enjoy the event as much as your guests do. The goal is to select recipes that can be prepared in stages and stored until needed.


Prepping food before your party can save you time and reduce stress on the day of the event, allowing you to focus more on enjoying time with your guests. Begin by planning a menu that includes dishes you can partially or fully prepare in advance. For example, sauces, dressings, and marinades can often be made a day or two before and stored in the fridge, giving the flavors time to develop. Vegetables can be washed, chopped, and even par-cooked ahead of time, while meats can be marinated or seasoned in advance. If you’re planning for any baked or roasted dishes, consider prepping and assembling them in their baking dishes ahead of time so all that’s left to do is pop them in the oven.

With everything organized and ready to go, you’ll find it easier to keep a relaxed vibe, ensuring your time is focused on connecting with your guests instead of managing every last detail.

Tip 5 Quick & Beautiful Holiday Table Decor

Creating a quick, minimal, and beautiful holiday table is all about thoughtful touches that add warmth and elegance without overwhelming. Here are some simple yet impactful ideas:


1. Single Statement Centerpiece

  • Opt for a single, bold centerpiece with seasonal greenery (pine, eucalyptus, or holly) or a large, elegant bowl filled with ornaments, pinecones, or mini pumpkins. This creates a focal point without clutter.

2. Layered Table Runner or Garland

  • A neutral or metallic table runner with a simple greenery garland over the top is a quick way to bring texture and warmth. For extra sparkle, add a string of fairy lights along the runner. Ornaments, fresh flowers and pinecones are a great way to decorate a table.

3. Candles for Warmth and Glow

  • Scatter a mix of pillar candles or votives along the center of the table. Choose unscented ones so they don’t interfere with the food’s aroma. Varying heights create visual interest, while candles add a soft, festive ambiance.

4. Simple Place Settings

  • Use elegant napkins in neutral tones with a small holiday touch, like a sprig of rosemary, tied with twine, or a small ornament on each plate. This adds a holiday feel without too much setup.

5. Metallic or Seasonal Accents

  • Select placemats or a charger plate in gold, silver, or copper accents. Small decorative holiday motives can be minimal but still make a statement on your table. These little touches catch the light beautifully and bring a festive but minimal vibe to the table.

These elements together can create a polished, seasonal look that’s perfect for holiday gatherings without requiring extensive preparation or decoration.

Holiday Room Decor For Comfort
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Tip 6 Create a Comfortable Space for Guests to Celebrate

To create a warm and inviting space for guests to mix and mingle, start by setting up cozy seating arrangements both indoors and outdoors. Dress up your indoor seating with plush throw pillows and soft blankets in seasonal colors or rich, neutral tones to make the space feel inviting. Consider arranging your furniture in clusters to encourage conversation and create a relaxed, lounge-like feel. Enhance the holiday atmosphere with a playlist of easygoing, upbeat music—think soft jazz, acoustic hits, or holiday classics in the background—to set a warm and lively mood!


Extend this ambiance outdoors by adding seating around a fire pit or fireplace if you have one. Drape warm blankets over chairs and include pillows with outdoor-friendly fabrics, ensuring your guests feel comfortable as they move between spaces. Incorporate outdoor lighting, such as string lights or lanterns, to add a magical glow and make the space feel more inviting. This setup not only creates an ideal environment for mingling but also allows guests to enjoy the fresh air without sacrificing warmth or comfort.


Tip 7 Creating Comfort Zones for Guests of All Ages

When holiday hosting, designating a specific area for coats and bags keeps your space tidy and accessible, allowing guests to feel instantly welcomed and settled. If you have a closet near the entrance, clear some space by removing any unnecessary items so it’s easy for guests to hang their coats. If a closet isn’t available, set up a freestanding coat rack and a bench or small table for bags near the entrance. Providing sturdy hangers, extra hooks, and even a small sign indicating the coat area adds a thoughtful, organized touch that makes a great first impression.


For events involving children, a dedicated kids’ table with crafts and games creates a fun, interactive space just for them, keeping them entertained and giving parents a chance to relax. Include simple, mess-free crafts like coloring books, stickers, or easy holiday-themed activities. To keep things manageable, place a disposable table cover or butcher paper on the table, so cleanup is a breeze once the activities wrap up. Set out a few classic games and toys that the kids can share, which adds to the festive spirit and gives them something to do if they finish the crafts early.


When it comes to cleaning up, don’t feel the need to tackle everything immediately—allow yourself to enjoy the evening with your guests. Consider hiring a helper or designating a friend or family member to help manage basic cleanup tasks discreetly. This way, you can stay engaged with guests without feeling overwhelmed by the thought of tidying up. Letting go of immediate cleanup expectations, especially in areas like the kids’ table, helps you and your guests enjoy a more relaxed and carefree evening, with the mess kept out of sight until everyone has gone home.

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In Conclusion, hosting during the holidays doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With thoughtful planning, prepping in advance, and setting up of self-serve stations, you can create a welcoming atmosphere that keeps you present and engaged with your guests. From prepping dishes and drinks ahead of time to setting up comfortable, cozy spaces indoors and out, each detail adds ease and flow to the evening. Remember, the goal is to enjoy the celebration as much as your guests. With these stress-free hosting strategies, you’ll be able to relax, connect, and make this holiday gathering as memorable for you as it is for everyone who walks through your door.

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